one chance with you

I've been forever searching for this song, and finally i found it, thanks for the person who posted it on you tube...

" Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well."

Vincent Van Gogh

ouch...

labad akong ulo, sakit akong dughan, di ko kibao unsa akong buhaton pagkabasa nako ani... hahay... tabang Lord!

failed... :(

himala

i think i like him already... lol

iniibig kita...

40 and forever...

an article

7 signs your honey may cheat

By Dr. Gilda Carle, Ph.D.

Most of us — even the not-so-jealous types — know that feeling of, “Is my sweetheart really working late… or could this person be two-timing me?” I’ve counseled many individuals dealing with this concern, so let me share my knowledge with you about the signs that someone is cheating (or seriously contemplating it). Use this information and insight — and either stop worrying or have a serious talk with your partner!

Sign #1: Your sweetie keeps you a secret from his/her family and friends

Cheaters keep you in the dark while they play in the light. Your relationship won’t work if you’re getting what I call the Shadow Treatment. The Shadow Treatment means that you are often kept waiting in the wings while your mate is out socializing. Think about it: Are there gatherings of friends, family reunions or workplace parties that you are not invited to? Do you only meet some of your honey’s network of friends? If you are kept on the sidelines, there’s probably a good reason. Maybe your sweetie is on the prowl for someone else. Or perhaps there is already someone else and so your role in his or her life can’t be made public. Anytime you are kept on the fringes once you believe you are an exclusive couple, be suspicious. And know that the only way to end Shadow Treatment is to stop accepting it. Once you challenge it, you will either be fully accepted in your sweetheart’s life… or know it’s time to leave.

Sign #2: Your sweetie is emotionally absent

Cheaters conceal their emotional whereabouts so they can be evasive about their physical whereabouts. Love is exhausting when you have to pry the truth out of a partner.

Consider this story: After enjoying a platonic friendship for a decade, Margaret and Roy began dating. Roy was a traveling sales manager. While he was on the road, Margaret heard from him only occasionally. But he continued to say he wanted to spend more time with her — which he never did. Margaret was obviously a low priority for him. She was shocked to learn he had another girlfriend across the country.

An emotionally absent partner may say what you want to hear, but will not change his or her actions — unless he or she wants to. Saying the right thing and doing the right thing are very different. If your honey talks a good game about spending more time with you and paying more attention to you but never delivers — look out! This person may be juggling multiple relationships.

Sign #3: Your sweetie says he or she wants a no-strings-attached romance

If someone says, “I don’t want a commitment,” take the sucker at his or her word. Don’t fall into that “I’ll be the one to change all that!” trap. Cheaters rebel against control and might even have an affair to spite a partner who wants to rein him or her in.

Too often, people ignore the clear message a potential date sends. If someone tells you, “I’m not into serious relationships,” “I won’t give up my freedom,” “I’m not ready to settle down,” or anything resembling that, take a giant step back! He or she is clearly telling you, “I want to play the field.” If you pursue the person anyway, hoping for an exclusive relationship, you may find yourself two-timed and brokenhearted. Never push a person into a situation he or she doesn’t want to be in. Never pursue a committed relationship with someone who tells you he or she doesn’t want one.

Sign # 4: Your sweetie admits to cheating on exes — and justifies the betrayals

Cheaters rationalize their behavior to let themselves off the hook. The way they justify their actions tells much about their character.

Listen to the excuses for past cheating your sweetie uses. Here are a couple I’ve heard from clients in my therapy practice over the years:

• “My ex was abusive, so I deserved to see someone kinder on the side.”
• “My father cheated on my mom, so cheating on my girlfriend is how I’m working through my past.”

Everyone has a tale to tell. But are these excuses — or any rationalizations — acceptable to you? A person who admits to infidelities in the past and explains them away has a good chance of straying again. He or she has not taken responsibility for past actions, nor worked through the issues involved.

Sign #5: Your sweetie has never been without a mate

Cheaters won’t ride solo... ever! Leaving one romance and hopping into a new one — or having simultaneous affairs at once — doesn’t leave time for assessing whatever went wrong. They don’t bother with introspection; their focus is squarely set on pulling new people into their orbit. If you are dating a person who shares a romantic history that always involves finding a new partner before breaking up with the current partner, take heed. This person may think of his or her mate only as a void-filler. Filling a void is never going to be the basis for a lasting love.

Sign #6: Your sweetie tells lies about little things

Cheaters lie about everything, which leads you to question what is truth and what is fiction in their lives. When the need to embroider overshadows the desire to be honest, the relationship becomes a sham.

Craig’s friend set him up on a blind date with a divorcée, Alice, who was a top attorney in town with no children. Each time they were together, Alice described her interesting caseload. Craig was fascinated — and falling hard. He was so caught up in her charismatic personality that he chose not to focus on the fact that some of her stories contradicted themselves, and that Alice seemed to change certain details as she got further into sharing her stories. One day, the local newspaper featured someone who had been indicted for impersonating an attorney. Craig was shocked to find that it was Alice — and that she was a wife and mother as well! Alice had lied to both Craig and his matchmaking friend.

If you are dating someone who seems to be untruthful about mundane topics — where he or she had lunch, what he or she is doing on Sunday morning — take note. The lies probably run deep. As my Gilda-Gram warns, “Without truth, there is no love.”

Sign #7: Your sweetie brags about his or her ability to attract others

Cheaters are insecure and need to be given constant attention on the side. They flaunt their popularity in attempts to boost their own low self-esteem. Let me give you an example: Marilyn met a “hot guy” on a singles cruise, and the pair became inseparable for the week. When they returned home, they spoke to each other constantly. He sent her a plane ticket to visit him. While together, Hot Guy boasted that he was his town’s “go-to” date for all the lonely women. Instead of Marilyn reading that as a sign to stay away, she interpreted his description of himself as “cute.”

Visiting her two weeks later, he said he was available throughout the week — except for a lunch date he had with a woman he had just met. Marilyn found that peculiar, but said nothing. After a dinner party, he detailed how many women had made passes at him. Marilyn began feeling disrespected and put down by this kind of talk. Finally, after crying herself to sleep, she told Hot Guy he was too hot for her.

If a partner boasts how in demand he or she is by the opposite sex, recognize how insecure your date really is — and steer clear. A person like this probably needs more ego-stroking than any one person can provide... and will look anywhere in order to find it.

So now you know the signs that indicate that maybe your “sweetie” isn’t really such a sweetie after all. Life and love are all about learning. Remember this Gilda-Gram: “Everyone who touches you, teaches you.” Instead of getting bummed out about a cheater who stole your heart, think of what you learned, and how your experience helped you to grow. Your new insight will arm you to attract someone more trustworthy in the future.

confirmation

me:(March 18, 2011 18:48:09)
hi b, good luck sa imung exam. hope nagbreakfast naka... love you b...

bbc: (March 18, 2011 17:49:58)
Salamat. Nana pud ko skul and wait ko canten na mag open. Love u

me:(March 18, 2011 18:51:28)
b i andam ghapon nako akong self b? or dili nako angay mahadlok b?

bbc: (March 18, 2011 17:56:33)
Unsa diay imu i andam?

me:(March 18, 2011 19:00:49)
ingun man ka b andamun nako akong self b. akong pagsabot ana b andamun nako akong self nga mawala naka sa ako... sayup ko b?
me:(March 18, 2011 19:08:59)
b? dapat pa gihapon ko mahadlok b?

bbc: (March 18, 2011 18:10:37)
Dili man cguro. Mukaon sa ko b k gutom napud.

me:(March 18, 2011 19:11:52)
unsay dili man cguro b? mahadlok b? or dili ko sayup b?

bbc: (March 18, 2011 18:18:15)
Ayaw lang kahadlok b.

me:(March 18, 2011 19:20:07)
ok b ill take it from you b, hope naa pakoy uli.an dra sa pinas b. love u b.

ikaw ug ako....

ikaw ni ug ako...

imu ug ako

atong duha

ang mga tsinelas

nga sa matag adlaw

permi nakatapot

sa atong mga till

sama

sa atong gugma

nga walay adlaw

na di nato

makita...

LDR

my insecurities are striking again and i'm bothered by it. i trust you, but i can't trust the people around you. is this what we're suppose to get from having a long-distance relationship? we still have a long way to go my love... i have only been away for 3 months... i'm praying that i'll have peace of mind as well as you'll have yours too, so that we can last until forever, if ever there is such a word. i will always love you... miss you much bb coh.

miss

i miss my bb pornstar so much....

tunay

ewan ko po di ko pa po nalalasap yung sinasabi nyong sarap ng buhay dito
nagaadjust pa po ako
na malayo ako sa mahal ko sa buhay
hanggang ngayon po ay pilit ko pa rin nilalabanan ang pagiging homesick
akala ko po magiging ok na ang lahat pag naka alis na ako ng Pilipinas

yun pala di ok.

gising naman ako sa katotohanan na wala na ako sa Pilipinas

andito nga ang katawan ko, nagtatrabaho

pero ang puso, kaluluwa't, isipan ko'y nakatali ng mahigpit sa taong pinakamamahal ko

andaming nang aakit,

puti, itim, kayumanggi, iba't ibang lahi

pero ni isa sa kanila, walang makakapantay sa irog ko

kelan man hindi naging masaya ang tatlong nag-iibigan

sapagkat ang tunay na pagibig ay pinagsasaluhan ng dalawang pusong nagmahahalan ng tapat.

pinagsasaluhan namin ng pinaka mamahal kong bb. :-)

i love you

i waited for you to utter those words but i got disappointed. do i always have to say it first? :-(

4

b maklaro nimu ang 4 ka cruise ship gatupad. hehehe

but

I HATE YOU!!!!!!!!!!

but

I LOVE YOU MORE... :-(

fire...

hospital view ni sa smoke b

kini sa gawas sa hospital

nagpadool na jud ko b. hehehe

sa kilid ni dapit b hehehe

sa wa pa masunog b, taken last december

valentines day was filled with love... keeping the flame goin', burning feelings, fiery emotions with all the lovers all around the world. lol... and b guess what? it was my first day at burns unit, where we do dressing to burnt patients. and there was a fire in one of the old buildings here. so much for heat! lol

14th of Feb

i celebrated valentines day with you miles away from me b. i had dinner with ate. she cooked well. wish u were here to celebrate the day with me, but, no matter how far we are from each other, distance is not a hindrance for our love to grow each day as we live. i love you so much.

happy valentine's day my love.

2 years ago

i still have it b. the valentine's card u gave 2 years ago. mwahhhhhh bahala karon sa fb na lang ka ga greet. hehehe happy heart's day my love. mwahhhhhhhh

vday 2

me:(February 13, 2011 21:01:43)

b cguro ur still confused as to who i am to you. mas maayo cguro ug magthink sa ka b, dili sa ko magsinamok sa imu b, pagmessage lang sa fb unya b, kung unsa man gale imung gusto i.istorya. sakit baya akong dughan b all this time mao di ai ghapon na imung pananaw sa ako? love u, nice hearts day gift for me .

bbc: (February 13, 2011 21:03:36)

Im not confuse.

me:(February 13, 2011 21:04:11)

so?

me:(February 13, 2011 21:05:40)

nganu ingana man ka? whats bothering you? be honest to yourself b

bbc: (February 13, 2011 21:10:34)

Im honest. My debts, my family. Daghan nag demand sa ako. Bayaran nako tanan ako utang para wala na prob. Wala ko kasabot sa ako life. Wala man unta koy

bbc: (February 13, 2011 21:10:37)

anak, y man daghan ga ask sa ako. Ako mama, ako mga manghud. Until now sa ako japon cla gasalig and i cant say NO to them. Mas maau pa cguro mamatay para

bbc: (February 13, 2011 21:10:40)

wala na problema. Kapoy naman oi!

me:(February 13, 2011 21:14:24)

unya maayo na imung gihunahuna? take one step at a time b, taman lang gud sa imung makaya. nganu di ai b? di ba di ai tika pwede tabangan? hinay-hinay lang pud b, mao na maka ingon kog unfair pud ka usahay b kay abi nimu dili ko gaka apektuhan sa imuhang mga problema. ingana tika ka love b. karon ug mamatay ka maghikog

me:(February 13, 2011 21:14:28)

na lang pud ko dre

me:(February 13, 2011 21:15:43)

aron maguban gihapon tang duha, gikapoy naman pud ko dre. wa koy lakaw2 mura na pud kog buang dre, unya ug wala naka, unsa pa man akong buhaton sa akong life?> may pag wala na lang pud.

bbc: (February 13, 2011 21:20:34)

One at a time manjud tanan.

me:(February 13, 2011 21:23:36)

yeah ana man jud unta na, saman pwede ra ko mo inum ug baygon karon dre kay ako ray usa. kibao ka sa imu ko ga kuha ug kusog pero ambot wala pud ko kasabot. ug pwede pa lang angkonon nako tanan ako na buhaton para sa imu.

honestly wa ko kibao unsay buhaton. wala ko kasabot sa akong feelings karon. hahay